"Being a family means you are part of something wonderful. It means you will love and be loved for the rest of your life. No matter what." ~Author Unknown



Sunday, April 13, 2014

Spring Break-Culley’s Gone Wild

We just finished our much needed vacation in Panama City Beach, FLA.  Sun was the much needed part.  After the winter we had we just wanted to see sun, grass, and open water!

How we end up at PCB is a bit of a long story.  To sum it up, we used to own a condo there, our friends still own it even though we got out, so we can rent it back much cheaper than your average FLA place at spring break.  It’s a great complex with good amenities.  Sof was obsessed with the indoor pool, Lexi with the hot tubs, and Adrienne likes the Starbucks drinks at the little store.  The drawback?  It’s a total spring break destination for the high school crowd.  I’m honestly a little torn on how I feel about this fact.  On one hand, it is really fun to people watch. Especially when the cops are doing breathalyzers on the beach.

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On the other hand, there’s something slightly off about my wholesome family vaca in the midst of this.

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At any rate, we’ve been there enough to know this is what we were getting into, and again, we just needed sun!

Sof has never been to Florida before, but she knows about vacation.  She started by making a packing list.  Yes, she’s wearing Christmas jammies, don’t judge.

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Blankey, Littlest Pet Shop, and snacks were her must haves.  Still, when we said a long ride, I’m not sure she really knew what that meant.

IMG_8677  We started on Friday night and drove about 5 hours.  We stopped at a hotel for the night.  My kids love continental breakfast.

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Everyone(even Sof) did really well in the car.  Thank God for iEverything. 

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We wasted no time getting to the Waffle House on the first morning.  The kids have been talking about it forever! 

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The rest of the trip was a rotation between beach, pool, and shopping.

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Lexi was real proud of her “castle”.  LOL

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There is a huge outdoor shopping mall that we frequented.  It’s got little something for everyone and a good place for nightlife also.

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Did I mention we came with our friends Barb and Jeff(and their son Andrew)?  Funny thing about this is that Barb will be Sof’s Kindergarten teacher next year!

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We happened to be shopping on the day that Grace was receiving her first chemo treatment.  We came across these shirts and couldn’t resist sending her a pic letting her know we were thinking of her.

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We had dinner at our favorite restaurant “Saltwater Grill”.  The big girls remember coming here from years past, and were excited to see the same piano player!

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The last day Mark took the big girls on a sailboat adventure to see some dolphins.  They apparently had a little fun on the boat!

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It was a great week.  Vacations are a rare opportunity to be all together for an extended period of time.  It forces you to take the time to notice where each kid is in their journey.

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Adrienne is like having a girfriend around.  She’s able to help out like another parent, shop, chat, and laugh.  I’m wildly proud she’s my kid, and already sad at how little time I have left with her under my roof.

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Jordyn and her had the perfect mix of going off on their own to qualify as teens, and yet spending time with us to fulfill the family vacation duty.

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Lexi is caught between two worlds.  One minute she’s laying on the beach with her headphones and a book, the next she’s building a sand castle.  The beauty of a little sister is it gives you a pass to slide into their world when you want.  I’m always torn between wanting to keep them little and the satisfaction that comes from watching them grow. 

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Sof is big enough to run back and forth between the sand and the water, all while I stay put in my chair.  She made a friend and introduced herself, and showered by herself when we got back.  Despite her independence, she’s still little enough to need a nap on the third day of sand and sun.   

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I love these three girls and their varying stages, and I loved the week we spent together.

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It’s hard to go home and back to the grind, but while we were gone we had our entire house painted.  A little something exciting to look forward too.  I hope they put all the colors in the right places…

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Wednesday, April 9, 2014

March(Otherwise Known as Still Winter)

It was quick month that basically went from celebration to celebration.  Mostly all recorded here already.  One random picture from Livy’s b-day dinner didn’t make it.

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March activities included shopping.

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Believe it not, two skiing days.

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Make-a-Wish volleyball fundraiser(we lost again).  We need to include volleyball skills in the interview process for new hires.

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Non-bowling night at our house, which included a completely inappropriate hilarious game.

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Grown up dinner out, where else, Palate.

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In other news, Sof was Star of the Week at school.

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She was feeling too cool that day to let me take a picture. 

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I cleaned out her closet one day and realized she’s grown 2 sizes since fall.  She was left with very little to wear that fit.   

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So we had to jump into spring clothing despite the winter like weather sticking around.

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Sof had her first adjudication at dance.

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Lexi had her last cheer competition.

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Adrienne got her Laduca’s(a dancer right of passsage).

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She also had her first competition of the season followed by the first “be crazy at Applebee’s afterward”.

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Sof got to watch Lexi make cookies while she ate her dinner cold due to refusal to eat it when it was hot:)

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They spend most their time being silly though.

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Onto April, where there has to be a glimmer of spring in our weather!

Monday, April 7, 2014

Why is everyone born in March?

If birthdays in our family were math, then March would be the mean, median, and the mode.  Mean: The average month one has a birthday in our family is March.  Median: If you line all the birthdays up, the one in the middle would be in March.  Mode: The highest occurrence of birthdays happen in March.  For the record, I did not actually do the math on this, so it could be completely false.  Point is we have enough birthdays in March to double the monthly budget. 

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To be fair, we have some early April ones that get lumped in there too.  Like Grandpa Culley’s…

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We celebrated at our house with dinner, gifts, and dessert.  The big birthday girls including the little non birthday girls in opening presents, so everyone is happy.

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It was a quick opening, because these girls have figured out quality over quantity.  Livy got her new iTouch and Lexi got an iPad of her own. 

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Lexi worked for days on a gift for Grandma Linda and Papa Curt.  She collected their favorite candy(Mentos) and put together an elaborate card for them. She loves to give.

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Our two little girls sure love dessert.  Not that the others don’t, but I think the only time you’ll ever find both Sof and Nat sitting still, not whining, not asking for anything, and not making any messes is when they’re eating dessert.

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Oh yeah, Adrienne was there too.  The elusive “don’t take my picture” teen.

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Every event we have Grandma Jackie at is a blessing.  Hopefully now that the weather is getting better we’ll see more of her.

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Happy March Birthdays crew!

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A Letter To Russia

Dear Russia,

Last month I completed my last post placement report to you.  When we jumped through all your hoops to prove we are worthy of parenting one of your abandoned children, we agreed we would report back to you on how our girl is doing.  Well guess what?  She’s thriving.  We think so, her school thinks so, our friends and family think so, and last month our social worker said so. 

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For two years now I have completed these reports knowing that no one will ever look at them.  I did it in good faith, in the event you change your mind about American adoptions.  I was quite hopeful at first.  That it would be a temporary ban for political positioning.  Two years later I’m just a little bitter.  Shame on you.  You cite a few tragic cases of abuse or neglect.  I agree that one lost life of a child is too many, but if that is your stance you’re a hypocrite.  You are taking the lives of every one of your nations orphans by denying them the chance to be adopted into a family who will give them the opportunity to rise to their fullest potential. 

We think our girl is extraordinary. She is intelligent, loving, and full of joy.  Truth is though, she’s not any different then the 80 some infants, toddlers, and preschoolers back at her baby home in St. Pete.  Only difference is she’s here, and they are there. 

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Sincerely, 

Sofie’s Mommy